Whether you have had pregnancy loss or infant death – and whether that pregnancy loss was miscarriage, termination of a pregnancy, stillbirth or anything in between – you are not alone. Here you will find resources and support for you, your partner, and the siblings of those who you hold in your heart but not your arms all completely free of religious connotations.

Pregnancy Loss & Infant Death Connections:
In loss, we are all in this together. This link provides several organizations that provide support, connection, comfort, and/or knowledge.

Memorial Ideas:

Organizations that provide financial assistance with burial:

Environmentally sensitive death arrangements:

Helpful Articles/Blogs:

Helpful Books for Bereaved Parents:

Helpful Resources for Bereaved Siblings:
As mention of living children can be triggering, links and descriptions for suggestions can be found here.

Elf Army of Light Non-Religious Annual Memorial:

Our memorial takes place annually at 7pm on October 15th during the International Wave of Light. You can share your baby’s name by emailing info@elfarmyoflight.org the name and date to be honored.   

You can find the recording of 2020’s virtual memorial here.